Wednesday, January 25, 2012

iConnect

It's funny how connected we always are. I text. I call. I e-mail. I'm on Twitter, LinkedIn, Facebook, Google+, Instagram, Voxer, and iMessage. I have 3 blogs which I update regularly and a YouTube channel. All of these things can be done from my iPhone. And the thing is, I'm not over connected by the standards of our generation. If anything, what makes me "weird" is that I still use snail mail. It is interesting that we have no problem being so connected to one another, but I guess it makes it easier for us to keep up with people without getting so personal.

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown





Monday, January 23, 2012

Kill Your (Insert tech object here)

Who needs real people? We have Siri, text messaging, e-mail, and, when all else fails, I suppose we could call another person. I just hope he doesn't pick up the phone.

Technology is deadly. It hinders our ability to effectively interact with others. Many people believe otherwise but, answer me this: What will we do when the computers shut down?

Food for thought...

Saturday, January 21, 2012

a FIRE n'ICE day

Today Des and I had fun together. From brunch at her place to going to the mall and getting tricked into a Tiffany & Co. stop to going to see Red Tails to hitting Panera Bread Co. for dinner and to work on our projects, today was nice. I appreciate her taking the time out to make me smile.


Popeye


I'm not a pastor nor am I a saint
But I didn't come here to tell you everything I ain't
I mean everything I'm not
See, everything I've got
Has me thanking Him for my mother to my socks
Don't get it wrong... We're not all of God a child
For instance, why would you say there's no church in the wild?
We are the church, the body not the building
And to say otherwise is to be making a killing
Because to deny His body is to hate your brother
And to hate your brother is to kill another
You say I'm streching but it's in His Word
First John, third chapter, read through every verse
See, it talks about how loving Christ correlates with loving your neighbor
So, if you don't, how can you love your Savior?
Or vice versa, how can you your brother but not the Son of God?
He saved you from damnation. Not loving him is more than odd
Love isn't all we need. We need the love of Christ
We need to love Him all in all, a love solid as the ice
And don't just talk about it, be about it
So many souls get rerouted
Because they hear us talk about Christ but cannot see our love
Sin forever we will but it takes no thought to hug
Live in love and we'll shine His light. In hate, we will dim it
Actions speak volumes. Let your actions be your spinach.

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Why SOPA Is Dangerous by Chris Heald

















This blog post was written by Chris Heald and can be found at http://mashable.com/2012/01/17/sopa-dangerous-opinion/. ©2005-2012 Mashable, Inc. I just wanted to try to add anothter quarter to the education of the half-educated. If you want to see all the cool pics and formatting of the article, click on the link above.




Why SOPA Is Dangerous







I’m sure you’ve heard by now that SOPA is bad and would ruin the Internet, but have you actually read the bill? If not, it’s worth reading, for two reasons. First, if you are going to oppose a bill, you should know exactly what you’re opposing, not just the vague principle behind it. Second, it’ll provide you with a valuable insight: that these bills are written in an attempt to obscure the truth.


First off, I’m going to qualify that I’m not a lawyer. However, I am a programmer, and that’s made me pretty good at unraveling spaghetti code. If ever a bill was spaghetti, this is it. If a programmer on my team wrote code as convoluted as this bill, I would fire him on the spot. That being said, there may be provisions I’m wrong about; if there are, please do correct me. My intent is to communicate the truth of this bill as cleanly as possible.
Here is the full text of the bill, as of Jan. 15, 2012. Open a copy, because I’ll be referring to it. It helps to click the “Printer Friendly” link to access a single-page view of the bill.
The Scalpel
Section 102(a)(2) permits the attorney general to take action against foreign sites (i.e., sites that do not fall under U.S. jurisdiction) if “the owner or operator of such Internet site is facilitating the commission of [copyright infringement].”
We’ll expand on this further down, but the really scary thing here is that there isn’t any qualification that the site be solely for the purpose of theft, only that it facilitate it. Since copyright violation is ridiculously easy, any site with a comment box or picture upload form is potentially infringing. Furthermore, DMCA Safe Harbor provisions are no defense. You, as a site operator, become liable for copyright infringement committed by your users, even if you comply with DMCA takedown requests.
This isn’t quite as bad as the rest of the bill because the power lies with the attorney general, rather than the copyright holder. But it’s not good, either. The language is so broad that it could be wielded against most any foreign site the AG chooses to target.
If the AG chooses to take action against a site (either against the operator, if they are subject to U.S. jurisdiction, or against the site itself if no one under U.S. jurisdiction can be found), then a subsequent court order would require the following:
Internet service providers will be required to block your access to the site (section 102(c)(2)(A)(i)) within five days.
Search engines (Google, Yahoo, Bing, etc.) will be forced to remove all references to the offending sites from their indexes (section 102(c)(2)(B)).
Ad providers (Google AdSense, Federated Media, etc.) will be required to stop providing ad service to the site.
Payment providers (PayPal, Visa, etc.) will be required to terminate service to the site.
Effectively, this bill gives the attorney general the power to fully censor foreign sites that the government does not have jurisdiction to take down directly. The most immediate example is WikiLeaks — under such an order, your ISP would be forced to block your access to Wikileaks. Once the technical means to do this are in place, then it becomes very easy for this power to be extended.
Implementing censorship protocols and giving the keys to the government is a scary, scary thing, and SOPA should be opposed simply based on this provision alone. But that’s not all.
The Sledgehammer
The really unsettling part of the bill is section 103. It is titled “MARKET-BASED SYSTEM TO PROTECT U.S. CUSTOMERS AND PREVENT U.S. FUNDING OF SITES DEDICATED TO THEFT OF U.S. PROPERTY.” On a first reading, it doesn’t sound that frightening. Read through section A1.
DEDICATED TO THEFT OF U.S. PROPERTY- An ‘Internet site is dedicated to theft of U.S. property’ if–
it is an Internet site, or a portion thereof, that is a U.S.-directed site and is used by users within the United States; and
either
the U.S.-directed site is primarily designed or operated for the purpose of, has only limited purpose or use other than, or is marketed by its operator or another acting in concert with that operator for use in, offering goods or services in a manner that engages in, enables, or facilitates–
a violation of section 501 of title 17, United States Code;
a violation of section 1201 of title 17, United States Code; or
the sale, distribution, or promotion of goods, services, or materials bearing a counterfeit mark, as that term is defined in section 34(d) of the Lanham Act or section 2320 of title 18, United States Code; or
the operator of the U.S.-directed site–
is taking, or has taken, deliberate actions to avoid confirming a high probability of the use of the U.S.-directed site to carry out acts that constitute a violation of section 501 or 1201 of title 17, United States Code; or
operates the U.S.-directed site with the object of promoting, or has promoted, its use to carry out acts that constitute a violation of section 501 or 1201 of title 17, United States Code, as shown by clear expression or other affirmative steps taken to foster infringement.
QUALIFYING PLAINTIFF- The term `qualifying plaintiff’ means, with respect to a particular Internet site or portion thereof, a holder of an intellectual property right harmed by the activities described in paragraph (1) occurring on that Internet site or portion thereof.
Wow, now there’s a chunk of legalese that’ll make your eyes gloss over. Let’s cut straight to the nasty bits.
An `Internet site is dedicated to theft of U.S. property’ if [a portion of the site is US-directed] and is used by users within the United States and is primarily designed or operated for the purpose of offering services in a manner that enables or facilitates [copyright violation or circumvention of copyright protection measures].
Still doesn’t sound that bad, but consider this: Any site that allows users to post content is “primarily designed for the purpose of offering services in a manner that enables copyright violation.” The site doesn’t have to be clearly designed for the purpose of copyright violation; it only has to provide functionality that can be used to enable copyright violation.
This means that YouTube, Facebook, Wikipedia, Gmail, Dropbox and millions of other sites would be “Internet sites…dedicated to theft of U.S. property,” under SOPA’s definition. Simply providing a feature that would make it possible for someone to commit copyright infringement or circumvention (see: 09 F9 11 02 9D 74 E3 5B D8 41 56 C5 63 56 88 C0) is enough to get your entire site branded as an infringing site.
Furthermore, you may be painted as infringing if you, the site owner, “take deliberate actions to avoid confirming a high probability of the use of…the site to carry out acts [of copyright infringement or circumvention].” This means if you deliberately decide that it’s not cost-effective to screen every piece of content and determine whether or not it is copyright-free before it is posted to your site (whether there is infringing content on your site or not), then you are labeled as an “Internet site…dedicated to theft of U.S. property.” Simply the act of not actively screening every piece of content makes you a criminal under SOPA.
So, We’re All Infringing, Now What?
Section 103(b) is really hairy, but we’ll attempt to parse through it. I’m not going to copy the whole text here, for the sake of brevity, though I do encourage you to read and understand it. Instead, we’ll discuss the most salient parts.
Payment providers (section (b)(1)) and ad networks ((b)(2)) are required, upon receiving a claim against a site by a copyright holder (section (4)(A)(i)), to cut off all services to the accused site within five days, unless they receive a counter-notification from the operator of the accused site. Note that there is no requirement that the accused be notified of said accusation, and thus, they would have no opportunity to provide a counter-notice. In practice, you’d probably find out about it when you notice that the money stops coming in, maybe a week or two later.
The only way to provide a counter-notice is to agree to submit to U.S. jurisdiction (section (5)(A)(ii)) if you are a foreigner (yikes), and to state under penalty of perjury that your product does not fit the definition of an “Internet site…dedicated to theft of U.S. property.” As we discussed above, it’s nearly impossible to not fit that definition. If you have a comment box, and you state that you aren’t guilty under that definition, you just committed perjury. Enjoy prison. Furthermore:
Any provider of a notification or counter notification who knowingly materially misrepresents under this section…that such site does not meet the criteria of an Internet site dedicated to the theft of U.S. property shall be liable for damages, including costs and attorneys’ fees, incurred by the person injured by such misrepresentation as a result of the misrepresentation.
So, if you provide that counter-notification that you aren’t an infringing site, but if you can possibly be painted to fit the definition of an infringing site (and again, you will be), you are now liable for all of the attacking party’s attorney fees. By replying, you give them carte blanche to sue you with no cost to themselves.
Now, if you provide a counter-notice, or an ad network or payment provider fails to cut off service within five days, then the accusing party may then serve you (the site owner) with a lawsuit. If they can’t get a hold of you, they may serve an in rem lawsuit against your site. If they win the lawsuit (and they will, if nobody is there to challenge them), then the court will award them ownership of your site (likely, the domain). This is the point where your accuser is required to notify you that they are taking action against you. This is how the situation could play out.
Plantiff accuses your site of infringement and serves notice to PayPal and Google, et al. PayPal and Google must shut off your payment services and ad services in 5 days. You are never notified.
If a service provider fails to shut off service, then the plantiff may may now take you to court for infringement.
Once you become aware that you’ve been accused of infringement, you either a) let your services get cut off by taking no action, or b) serve a counter-notice, which places you under US jurisdiction (if you’re not in the US) and sets you up for a perjury charge.
If you respond with a counter-notice, then Plantiff may now take you to court for infringement.
Plantiff accuses your site of infringement, and you don’t respond. Plantiff files an in rem lawsuit, and seizes control of your domain.
The Bulldozer
Section 201(b)(1) expands criminal copyright infringement to include:
…At least 10 copies or phonorecords, or of at least 10 public performances by means of digital transmission, of 1 or more copyrighted works, during any 180-day period, which have a total retail value of more than $2,500.
Now, the way that the value of a work can be computed in court is the very crude (value of the work times number of views).
…Total retail value may be shown by evidence of the total retail price that persons receiving the reproductions, distributions, or public performances constituting the offense would have paid to receive such reproductions, distributions, or public performances lawfully.
This means, for example, if you upload a video to YouTube of you singing a popular song, and that song might sell for $1, and your video gets 2,500 views, you are guilty of felony copyright infringement. Furthermore, you can tack on “willful infringement for commercial gain or valued at more than $1,000.”
This would make you a felon, and if a copyright holder were to bring a suit against you, would give you a criminal record that would make it virtually impossible to gain future employment, and may subject you to up to three years in prison for singing a song. You don’t have to receive any money. You don’t have to gain anything from your video. Simply receiving 2,500 views on a song you sung, which happens to have copyright held by someone else, makes you a felon.
Section 201(c) of SOPA includes a new rule of construction: a person with “a good faith reasonable basis in law to believe that the person’s conduct is lawful shall not be considered to have acted willfully for purposes of the amendments made by this section.” By implication, a person who believed her conduct was protected (e.g., fair use) might be found to have acted “willfully,” if her belief about the law is held to be unreasonable.
SOPA expands “willful infringement” to include those who don’t understand the law, not just those who understand it and choose to ignore it.
To Sum Up
SOPA:
Gives the government the right to unilaterally censor foreign websites.
Gives copyright holders the right to issue economic takedowns and bring lawsuits against website owners and operators, if those websites have features that make it possible to post infringing content.
Makes it a felony offense to post a copyrighted song or video.
This bill turns us all into criminals. If it passes, then you either stop using the Internet, or you simply hope that you never end up in the crosshairs, because if you’re targeted, you will be destroyed by this bill. You don’t have to be a big, mean, nasty criminal — common Internet usage is effectively criminalized under this law. This bill will kill American innovation and development of the Internet, as it will become too risky to do anything of value. It is toxic and dangerous, and should not, under any circumstances, be supported.
I hope that this helps you to more clearly understand why SOPA is bad. Rhetoric is efficient, but you should know what you’re opposing and why you’re opposing it. It’s difficult to read and understand, but if you care about the Internet, free speech and personal freedom at all, you owe it to yourself to understand and oppose SOPA.
Image courtesy of iStockphoto, PashaIgnatov
May 12: PIPA introduced
The PROTECT IP Act (Preventing Real Online Threats to Economic Creativity and Theft of Intellectual Property Act of 2011), better known as PIPA was introduced into the Senate by Sen. Patrick Leahy (D-VT). The act’s goals were described by its sponsors as protecting intellectual property and punishing foreign sites who post copyrighted material. If a site was discovered doing so, the U.S. attorney general could order U.S. based Internet service providers, search engines, payment systems and advertising networks to suspend doing business with the website.
Photo courtesy Mikedish on Flickr
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SOPA And PIPA: A Timeline Of How We Got Here

The PROTECT IP Act (Preventing Real Online Threats to Economic Creativity and Theft of Intellectual Property Act of 2011), better known as PIPA was introduced into the Senate by Sen. Patrick Leahy (D-VT). The act’s goals were described by its sponsors as protecting intellectual property and punishing foreign sites who post copyrighted material. If a site was discovered doing so, the U.S. attorney general could order U.S. based Internet service providers, search engines, payment systems and advertising networks to suspend doing business with the website.
Photo courtesy Mikedish on Flickr
May 12: PIPA introduced
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Five months later, a similar bill was introduced in the House of Representatives by Lamar Smith (R-TX) named the Stop Online Piracy Act, or SOPA. The bill was very similar to PIPA.
Photo courtesy Ryanjreilly of Flickr.
Oct. 26: SOPA Introduced
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Twelve tech giants, including Google, Facebook and LinkedIn, delivered a letter of protest to the sponsors of the SOPA and PIPA legislation, calling the bill dangerous to American innovation and cybersecurity, but also acknowledged that digital piracy is a real problem.
Nov. 15: Tech Giants Weigh In
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Tumblr, Mozilla and Reddit censored their content in one the first wide-scale protests of SOPA. The sites claimed the bill strengthens the U.S. Justice Department’s power to go after websites that host disputed copyright material and could make sites such as YouTube and Tumblr that host such user-generated content liable for copyright violations. Tumblr would only remove the black bars over posts if users agreed to call their representatives and protest SOPA. Reddit and Mozilla also put black bars over their logos in protest.
Nov. 16: Tumblr, Mozilla, Others Post Anti-SOPA Messages
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The House holds public hearings to discuss SOPA that were broadcast on C-SPAN and streamed online. Both pro- and anti-SOPA groups rallied that day with public messages regarding the bill. This message from the MPAA ran in the Washington Post. After a two-day debate, discussions were then delayed until Dec. 21, then delayed again until after holiday recess.
Dec. 15: House Meets
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Reddit declared Dec. 29 “Dump GoDaddy Day” after the domain hosting service declared they supported the legislation. Although GoDaddy quickly reversed its position, it says it lost more than 20,000 accounts because of the boycott.
Dec. 29: GoDaddy Dump Day
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Reddit announced they would go black on Jan. 18, as a day to protest against SOPA/PIPA. Although they were the first to the call to action, they were quickly joined by other web companies, most notably Wikipedia, who vowed to go dark for the whole day.
Images courtesy of Imgur’s SOPA resources
Jan. 10: Reddit Announces Blackout
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Rep. Lamar Smith (R-TX), who wrote the SOPA bill, announced he would remove the controversial section of the bill that would give copyright holders and the federal government the right to remove infringing websites from the DNS (Domain Name System). DNS works as a sort of “phone book” for the Internet. When a user types a URL into a browser, DNS helps the users’ computer find and speak with the correct server hosting the content the user wants to access. If a website is taken off the DNS system, it becomes more difficult for the average Internet user to arrive at that site, but savvy Internet users might still be able to access blocked sites.
Jan. 13: DNS Blocking Dropped
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In a blog post responding to a petition posted on the White House’s website, the Obama Administration clearly laid out what it would – and would not – support in any new legislation designed to combat online piracy.
“While we believe that online piracy by foreign websites is a serious problem that requires a serious legislative response,” said the note, “we will not support legislation that reduces freedom of expression, increases cybersecurity risk, or undermines the dynamic, innovative global Internet.”
Jan. 14: White House Responds
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The architect of SOPA, Rep. Lamar Smith, scheduled a markup session next month in which the bill might be altered. In a markup session, a bill is opened to members of the House Judicial Committee for debate, amendments and other changes. The House will not be taking a final vote on SOPA.
Jan. 17: Lamar Smith Announces More Rewrites
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Websites pledged to go dark in protest.
Jan 18: A Day of Protest
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May 12: PIPA introduced
The PROTECT IP Act (Preventing Real Online Threats to Economic Creativity and Theft of Intellectual Property Act of 2011), better known as PIPA was introduced into the Senate by Sen. Patrick Leahy (D-VT). The act’s goals were described by its sponsors as protecting intellectual property and punishing foreign sites who post copyrighted material. If a site was discovered doing so, the U.S. attorney general could order U.S. based Internet service providers, search engines, payment systems and advertising networks to suspend doing business with the website.
Photo courtesy Mikedish on Flickr
Oct. 26: SOPA Introduced
Five months later, a similar bill was introduced in the House of Representatives by Lamar Smith (R-TX) named the Stop Online Piracy Act, or SOPA. The bill was very similar to PIPA.
Photo courtesy Ryanjreilly of Flickr.
Nov. 15: Tech Giants Weigh In
Twelve tech giants, including Google, Facebook and LinkedIn, delivered a letter of protest to the sponsors of the SOPA and PIPA legislation, calling the bill dangerous to American innovation and cybersecurity, but also acknowledged that digital piracy is a real problem.
Nov. 16: Tumblr, Mozilla, Others Post Anti-SOPA Messages
Tumblr, Mozilla and Reddit censored their content in one the first wide-scale protests of SOPA. The sites claimed the bill strengthens the U.S. Justice Department’s power to go after websites that host disputed copyright material and could make sites such as YouTube and Tumblr that host such user-generated content liable for copyright violations. Tumblr would only remove the black bars over posts if users agreed to call their representatives and protest SOPA. Reddit and Mozilla also put black bars over their logos in protest.
Dec. 15: House Meets
The House holds public hearings to discuss SOPA that were broadcast on C-SPAN and streamed online. Both pro- and anti-SOPA groups rallied that day with public messages regarding the bill. This message from the MPAA ran in the Washington Post. After a two-day debate, discussions were then delayed until Dec. 21, then delayed again until after holiday recess.
Dec. 29: GoDaddy Dump Day
Reddit declared Dec. 29 “Dump GoDaddy Day” after the domain hosting service declared they supported the legislation. Although GoDaddy quickly reversed its position, it says it lost more than 20,000 accounts because of the boycott.
Jan. 10: Reddit Announces Blackout
Reddit announced they would go black on Jan. 18, as a day to protest against SOPA/PIPA. Although they were the first to the call to action, they were quickly joined by other web companies, most notably Wikipedia, who vowed to go dark for the whole day.
Images courtesy of Imgur’s SOPA resources
Jan. 13: DNS Blocking Dropped
Rep. Lamar Smith (R-TX), who wrote the SOPA bill, announced he would remove the controversial section of the bill that would give copyright holders and the federal government the right to remove infringing websites from the DNS (Domain Name System). DNS works as a sort of “phone book” for the Internet. When a user types a URL into a browser, DNS helps the users’ computer find and speak with the correct server hosting the content the user wants to access. If a website is taken off the DNS system, it becomes more difficult for the average Internet user to arrive at that site, but savvy Internet users might still be able to access blocked sites.
Jan. 14: White House Responds
In a blog post responding to a petition posted on the White House’s website, the Obama Administration clearly laid out what it would – and would not – support in any new legislation designed to combat online piracy.
“While we believe that online piracy by foreign websites is a serious problem that requires a serious legislative response,” said the note, “we will not support legislation that reduces freedom of expression, increases cybersecurity risk, or undermines the dynamic, innovative global Internet.”
Jan. 17: Lamar Smith Announces More Rewrites
The architect of SOPA, Rep. Lamar Smith, scheduled a markup session next month in which the bill might be altered. In a markup session, a bill is opened to members of the House Judicial Committee for debate, amendments and other changes. The House will not be taking a final vote on SOPA.
Jan 18: A Day of Protest
Websites pledged to go dark in protest.




















































Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Do Better! (The Community Needs Us)

I really have a difficult time understanding how people pledge just to be active during college. And so many people blame it on the dues but I am CERTAIN that if you show up to a community service event at a graduate level, no one is going to say, "You can't serve at the soup kitchen because you didn't pay your dues." They might talk about you but I hope you didn't make it out of your process with thin skin.

Sad thing is, people don't even try to be active these days. And yes, I am judging. I understand if you are just getting out of school and are working 2 or 3 jobs and can't make any events. But for those of us who have one job and time to relax, why not use that leisure time to mentor a young person? You don't have to do it in the name of Kappa or Zeta or whomever but it needs to be done. Our community needs those of us with the work ethic that so many of our Deans, ADPs, and other big brothers/big sisters tried to instill in us. Being an Alpha is not so much about knowing you're the best at everything. Being a Delta isn't about always promoting the image of an independent woman. Sometimes you really just have to let down the exterior and do what we were all intended to do - serve. And if you can't do that, take your letters off.

Yes, resources are needed to serve the community but if you don't have the resources and you don't give the community the one thing you have of value to the organization (that being your time), you are a piss poor representation of _____ _____ ______ Fraternity/Sorority (, Incorporated). And this goes to everyone from my line brothers to the last Iota to cross during Fall 2011. DO BETTER!

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Research & Development

I hate when people look at me as if they're upset at me for happening to walk in the same direction and them being scared. Just because I'm a young black male does not mean I want to rob you. I cannot help that we're walking in the same direction to the bus at 6:30 in the morning (and if I could help the fact that I was black, I wouldn't). I'm trying to make an honest living and still I deal with the looks. And believe me, I've gotten it enough times to know what "the look" is. I wonder if 5'8" 155 pound white guys get the same look. I'm just curious because I've never heard one of them complain about it. But I walk past cars and often hear the doors lock. And I wish it only happened when I'm in my black workout gear but I've had it happen when I'm in slacks and a tie or even a suit. This is frustrating.

And I don't even blame these people individually because it's not just whites. I've had just as many black people give me the look. We are scared of our own because we are scarred by our society. Western culture is anti-Afro (closest thing I could get to a direct opposite of Eurocentric). In order to promote the "White is right" school of thought, there must be an antithesis... "Black is wrong" is that antithesis. It makes sense though; black is a direct opposite to white, both in color schemes and in the physical world. While some white people come as white as the background on this BlackBerry e-mail, some black people come as dark as the shell which protects the interior of the device. So it was an easy contrast to draw that even the simplest person could comprehend.

Now, many may say that I am biased but I am actually far from it. I am nothing but an objective realist. That is what those in power lack - objectivity. Why accept an unjust reality when you know that injustice will challenge your morals which will cause your conscious to push you to push for equality? So let's act like everything is just. I actually love white people because I love people and they fit into that greater demographic. Some of my closest friends are white. The person I have the most in common with at work is a 35+ year old white lady. Race is a nothing but a brand which we have researched, developed, marketed, and bought into as a society.

Well, it's time to get to work so I can make this honest living. Lock your doors before I walk by next time. Thanks.

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

Monday, January 2, 2012

Life Is Funny

Life is funny. About a year ago, I was chapter president of the "it" fraternity on campus. I was on homecoming court. I worked as a student manager in the university center. I was in a rocky relationship with a work-a-holic Delta. And I lived with my best friend in student housing. A year later, I am a college graduate who has had two jobs. I lost my father. I moved to one of the fastest growing cities in America. My relationship is amazing. And I'm sitting at home on the couch drinking a beer, eating chicken wings, and watching Star Wars, Episode V. I know this post has been very unpredictable, but that's because life is very unpredictable (and maybe because drinking "a" beer really means I've had two). Anyway, be thankful for the good times. We're only young once and, as my fraternity hymn says, "college days swiftly pass." Back to the movie though. I have to get up for work in the morning.

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Thanks Mom


"Look what a n***a came out. Mama sewing patches on my holes. Man a hose couldn't put this flame out." -- J. Cole

I love my Mom. She has been a rock for my whole life and still is one to this day. She gets on my nerves sometimes but that's what parents are supposed to do. We are so far from where we came and still so far from where we are going.

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Goals Are Gre>ter Than Resolutions

"Now see, the difference between me and you is that I just hit rock bottom. After this, I don't have a choice. I've got people to provide for... promises I've made... goals to meet. What you got?" -- Drake

I'm sitting here listening to Drake's first major mixtape "Comeback Season," and it is so ironic because about an hour before I cut the intro on, I had tweeted "2012 is going to be a rebuilding season. Preparation for 13." And a few hours before that, when I was making my to do list for tonight, I decided that I would write on the topic of new years goals vs. resolutions. All this being said, I will go into why it is no necessary to set goals for 2012 as opposed to making the traditional resolutions many of which never get fulfilled.

In order for me to effectively communicate this battle of good versus mediocre, I must first draw a distinction between a resolution and a goal. I will try to be brief since I’d like to assume that you reading my blog means you have the ability to utilize context clues and figure these things out. If not, it’s cool. Shoot me an e-mail and I’ll work on that with you after class.

But anyway, a resolution is little more than a promise to one’s self. It is often very ineffective because, many times we honor promises because of the simple fact that we don’t want to let one of our loved ones down. And that is very noble. But in the case of letting one’s self down, it is much easier to do because you know that you are the only one who must suffer the consequences.

A goal, however, is a dream with steps to reach it. Without steps, reaching a dream is pure luck. However to set a goal and taking the steps necessary to reach that goal is nothing short of driven. It shows dedication, logic, maturity, and understanding. You must be focused to make it from point A to point M, checking off every step in between, with the hopes of eventually reaching point Z. You must weigh out the likelihood of actually getting a step completed and the timeframe in which it should be done. You must take an honest inventory of yourself to realize and assess your weaknesses as well as to build upon your strengths. Finally, but most importantly, you must have a solid understand of the goings on. If you do not realize how to effectively reach your goal, why embark on it to begin with? Leave it as a dream and hope that somehow, you’ll get there.

In short, to attempt to resolve an inadequacy with no steps is no resolution at all, but rather a pitch into a wishing well. Let’s go into this year with some sense of seriousness and purpose when it comes to bettering ourselves so that we can step into 2013 better prepared for this moment of goal setting than we are at the current moment.

I will leave you all with this quote that I wrote down while conversing with a bus driver yesterday. He provided me with a wealth of knowledge. But one thing that he said that I am going to put into practice is "I always think of 5 or 6 things positive tomorrow just in case I live to see another day."

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown