Thursday, September 29, 2011

Perception TV

If you know me, you know I hate the genre that has been named "Reality Television." No one lives like this. I don't know anyone who is in their feelings in public all the time. Most people I know are not alright with telling the world their feelings all the time. Also, most people I know have more sense than to act like a complete idiot and/or jerk all the time. My family would be embarrassed. That's how I know this is all an act.

Secondly, I think these shows set new societal norms. "Let's not get married. Let's just live together and have kids." "I feel like getting botox is like going and filling up the gas tank." (<--- that was actually a direct quote) Come on people!!! Maybe this nation has always been that superficial, but I know better. Our microwave generation wants everything without working for it. I'm really worried about bringing kids into the world in the future.

On top of all that, why do we have time to give a damn about what's going on in the lives of basketball baby mamas and not in the halls of Congress? This is why our nation is so backward. And then we get mad about the way the economy is looking. We do it to ourselves so we deserve it. Until we get back to wanting to learn more than we want to be entertained, we will continue on this downward slope and no politician can change that.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Keep Living

Life is too exciting to waste. I feel like I've done it all and still not done enough. I'm 23 going on 24 and I have done everything from lived like a celebrity to be a recluse. I've gone from being $0.04 away from being broke to having a salary that rivals a lot of adults I know, all within a month's time. I've been a mentor and a mentee. It hasn't always been fun but it is always a challenge. So I am going to keep living and see what other highs I can hit and what lows I can overcome.


Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Friday, September 23, 2011

My Miss

I lay here missing her
Wishing I was kissing her
There is no listing her
She falls in a different category
She's not just trying to matador me
No tricks, just hugs and smooches
Maybe one day kids and pooches
Damn, she's got me losing my edge
She's got me thinking w/ my heart, not my head
You must know, I wasn't always like this
But I guess, with the right miss,
Anything is possible
But with my miss
I can do the impossible

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Got Change 2.0 ?

If I could do anything for the rest of my life, I would write and I would speak. I would write until there was no more paper. Well, let me clarify that. I would write and I would type. I would make sure that the words that came from my mind would make people want to think. They would make kids want to learn. They would make the world want to love. But people don't read anymore. And they don't listen, they just hear. How can I do what I love when I can only do it in a figurative mirror? If the only people who read my writing or listen to me speak are the people who I know already think like me, how can I inspire change in the world? I need people to do their part and read!!! Funny thing is, as I'm writing this, I know that the only people on my blog reading it are the people who think along the same lines I do, which is too small of a percentage of people to... No. Forget that. Change always started with a small group of cool people who people didn't know were cool yet. So I'm going to keep writing to the people who know they're cool by their own merit and we're going to inspire change. I'm going to keep speaking to the kids in the classes where I know the teacher subscribes to my school of thought because I am going to help save one of those kids. Change is going to come and it will be for the better. We've done worse for long enough.

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Read & Listen

This poem must be watched, heard, and listened to to be fully appreciated. A great piece of social commentary. I wish I knew the title of the piece but the poet is Taylor Mali. I thought that I was the only one who saw the quality use of the English language dwindling.



Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Accessories to Murder


I killed Troy Davis. You killed Troy Davis. Jim, John, Paul, Molly, Susie, and Lisa killed Troy Davis. Anyone who wanted him to be freed played a role in killing him. Honestly, the politicians did their jobs. I'm sure they all did their research. I'm sure they've known about this situation for the past 22 years. This story is almost as old as me. So why did I only hear about it within recent months. And why did it just hit twitter this week? Because the media, which is run first by people with money and secondly by people who don't look like Troy, doesn't care to give us a chance to help him. Let it be someone who will increase their ratings or the amount of newspapers they sell and I guarantee you will see it hit the front page. But too often the poor and/or the black don't keep up with the news. Why didn't politicians run on the promise, "I will make sure Troy Davis is freed?" Because we didn't press the issue. Don't rely on anyone but yourself to inform you of the issues that you should be concerned with. That's like me telling a grown man, "You need to eat your vegetables." Why should I have to do that? If you want to die, die. If you want to be taken for granted as a citizen who doesn't care about his future, don't read. Don't write your politicians. Don't vote. I called up to D.C. when I heard about this. But what else could I have done? I could have posted a blog post before today. I could have written a letter. I could have marched. I didn't. You didn't. None of us did.

One of my brothers said today, "Blacks from the 60's run circles around us... Us, with our degrees, Internet and black president." It is too true. We have all of these resources at our disposal but what do we do with them? Make horrible music, expect everything for free, and complain when people don't get freed from prison at will. Stuff takes work. It takes time. It takes dedication and, most of all, it takes sacrifice. We work so hard to make sure our kids have a comfortable future without realizing that money alone can't buy comfort in a political system that will still see them as second class citizens. So, yes, let's work our jobs like the yuppies that we are (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/yuppie). But let's also keep the fight that our activist ancestors had. And that's for everyone, regardless of race. White people, your ancestors were activists too. Revolutionary war? Revolt. Confederate States of America? Fighting against a system you didn't believe in. Native Americans, activism can be silent and it is not always victorious. The Trail of Tears is a result of your activism. Japanese Americans, you all made America apologize for your internment during WWII. We were a nation of activist... so what the hell happened? We became a nation of involuntary accessories to murder.

Now watch most of you read this and not repost it. That's cool. That's why this cycle will continue. Are you a part of the solution or apart of the problem?

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

If Troy Davis Dies Tonight


The struggle of the masses
Is not race but class is
The truest issue facing those under God
Race is surface level... a facade
They blind us so we don't examine the true problems
Because then we would definitely be able to solve them
I can't and I won't act like race isn't a factor
But in comparison to wealth, race just doesn't matter
See, if I can pay for a good defense, I can pull an OJ
And if I can't, I'll be sitting where Troy Dave
Is, awaiting an execution with no foreseeable solution
But all this mental pollution
Has us thinking it's really about the color of his skin
When it's really about the skin that holds his money
Is it pleather or cowhide... This is so sad yet so funny.
From cow tail whips in Africa to cowhide leather that makes wallets to buy whips
Either way, if you're rich, the taste of death won't touch your lips
You cannot say that I am naive. No, I've thought this through
Race is an issue, but money is too
No, money is one and race is two
So if you're a rich black man, you're doing better than a slew
Of whites whose grandparents slaughtered our people
Because now, money, not race, is what makes you regal
Funny thing is, the love of money is the root of evil
So to wear a crown you must rock with d'evils
Social d-evols... Social devolution
And that is where I come to my conclusion
The white man is not the devil. Sorry to those who believe it
The rich man who lets money replace love, though you can't see it,
He is the devil... or at least a demon in service
So, ask yourself, when you make love to your money with your time, was it worth it?

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Monday, September 19, 2011

Will Work 4 Wealth

No one is going to give you anything. ACTUALLY, people will be quicker to take from you than they will be to give to you. If you maintain that mindset, you can earn what you deserve, protect what you have earned, and the times that you are surprised with a blessing, you'll appreciate it that much more. But to think you're going to get a lot while putting in a minimal amount of work makes you naive and feeble minded. And that doesn't mean that investments can't grow; it means that you must invest wisely so that you have put in the time to make up for the money that you're not putting in to get out the money that you want to get. But if someone comes to you, says "I have an idea that can make you a millionaire in 8 months," and, after a 30 minute to an hour talk, you sign on and put your money in without doing any outside research of your own, you deserve to take this loss as a learning lesson. Work for what you want. It's not going to happen over night and if it does, it won't last. Even musicians who we think are so rich might have 1 or 2 albums that do ok and they might do a mini-tour but after that, what keeps them afloat? Hard work. Market research. Hours in the studio to perfect one song. Same with athletes. They have to train their bodies to keep them in the game for seasons and seasons just so they can maintain the lifestyle they want. If they don't, they're getting cut after the pre-season. So do what you need to do or struggle forever. The choice is yours.

Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Friday, September 16, 2011

#ReasonsToVoteForReko

In case you missed my rant on Twitter yesterday, here are some great reasons I thought of to vote Reko Daye for UNCG's Homecoming King... And yes, I do officially and unofficially endorse Bro. Reko Daye for UNCG's homecoming king. So follow him on Twitter @aDAYE_fit4aKING, add him on FB, join the FB group, tell your friends to vote for him. If you don't know him, go by the info desk. He's probably there. Basically do whatever it takes to make sure my brother wins.

*Queens, I'm so cool w/ 4 of you all running that I'm not going to fight that battle.


#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he's a great friend to have when things are or aren't going right

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he knows how to cool off when under pressure

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he doesn't care if you're black, white, or orange. He sees blue and gold (well, blk and gold too but you know...)

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he's cooler than me and that's pretty darn cool

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c his line name is sp-Art-iC-usE... come on ppl... It's destiny

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c my mom said you all should (no really though, she loves him like a son)

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c his name is cool. Reko Daye?! You can't have a name like that and not be cool

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he was my resident... Thus, he has all the tools I had plus he can dance (well)

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c @voteMADDIEqueen said so and you don't want to get on her bad side

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he's your favorite Alpha's favorite Alpha. (Yes, I know I'm #1 in you all's eyes)

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he's just soooooo happy

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he is well dressed

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he works hard in school

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he is from Durham

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he was an Ace Honcho as a first semester sophomore... I will say no more

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he really cares about the future of UNCG

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he's probably your friend

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c once, when I was broke, he paid my phone bill for me. #ThatsABrother

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he's an impeccable decision maker

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c, not only can he read, he does read

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he's got a great sense of humor

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he has the cutest little sister and she will smile for you all if he wins but she might cry if he loses

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he works in the EUC... I just feel like that's a great place to have the face of UNCG

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he is creative

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he is always focused on strengthening his mind, body, and spirit

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he has patience

#ReasonsToVoteForReko b/c he is the embodiment of the American Dream

#ReasonsToVoteForReko could go on all night but y'all get the point... So vote for my brother @aDAYE_fit4aKING


Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

The Reality

Why are black men who are intellectual always seen as anomalies but those of us who can dance and play sports are seen as the norm? As a teenager, I hated when people would say "You are so well spoken," because, based on their body language and tone of voice, I could see that their surprise was not at my age but my race. But when people find out that I am unable to step like the rest of my fraternity brothers, they think I'm kidding and, when they realize that I'm not, they are often disappointed. And it's not just white people... It's everyone who is surprised at how "backward" my priorities are. Well, I will never apologize for being more focused on my future than my physique. I am not an anomaly. I'm just what mainstream doesn't want you to see. I am the reality.


Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Monday, September 12, 2011

Trust Issues

I'm listening to the song Trust Issues by Drake on repeat and I am thinking about how minute his issues with trust really are. Either that or his lyrical explanation of them is far from adequate.

He doesn't trust women to mix his drinks because he's "on one." As a man, I've never been worried about a woman slipping something in my drink. More than anything, when it comes to trusting women, I have issues with their loyalty, more so emotionally than physically, though physically is also an issue. I have seen first hand many women use their infidelity to disrespect their significant to such a degree that I would never speak to that woman again.

But even beyond trusting women, I don't trust people in general. Most people are shiesty. It goes beyond trusting people with information. So many people are unreliable because they are inconsistently there for you. From family to friends to fraternity brothers to girlfriends, people will let you down. They will leave you. To trust someone takes so much effort that to put your full trust in any more people than you have to will drain you to death emotionally. People leave. People die. People lie. You can't trust everyone. But make sure that, those who you do trust, have been gradually tested as opposed to placing an exponential amount of faith on them early on in you all's relationship. That is how you develop trust issues that seem insurmountable. Then again, even those can be overcome by the right people. Or at least I think so.

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Sunday, September 4, 2011

I am thankful for...

I am thankful for...
by Nancie J. Carmody

...the mess to clean up after a party
because it means I have been surrounded by friends.
...the taxes I pay
because it means that I'm employed.
...the clothes that fit a little too snug
because it means I have enough to eat.
...my shadow who watches me work
because it means I am out in the sunshine.
...the spot I find at the far end of the parking lot
because it means I am capable of walking.
...all the complaining I hear about our government
because it means we have freedom of speech.
...that lady behind me in church who sings off key
because it means that I can hear.
...lawn that needs mowing, windows that need cleaning and gutters that need fixing
because it means I have a home.
...my huge heating bill
because it means that I am warm.
...weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day
because it means that I have been productive.
...the alarm that goes off in the early morning hours
because it means that I am alive.
There are three kinds of days:
Good days,
Great days, and
Outstanding days.


Litera scripta manet. - Unknown

Saturday, September 3, 2011

A Letter To My Students -- Prof. Michael O'Hare

A letter to my students
Michael O'Hare, professor of public policy | 8/24/10 | 272 comments | Leave a comment


Welcome to Berkeley, probably still the best public university in the world. Meet your classmates, the best group of partners you can find anywhere. The percentages for grades on exams, papers, etc. in my courses always add up to 110% because that’s what I’ve learned to expect from you, over twenty years in the best job in the world.

That’s the good news. The bad news is that you have been the victims of a terrible swindle, denied an inheritance you deserve by contract and by your merits. And you aren’t the only ones; victims of this ripoff include the students who were on your left and on your right in high school but didn’t get into Cal, a whole generation stiffed by mine. This letter is an apology, and more usefully, perhaps a signal to start demanding what’s been taken from you so you can pass it on with interest.

Swindle – what happened? Well, before you were born, Californians now dead or in nursing homes made a remarkable deal with the future. (Not from California? Keep reading, lots of this applies to you, with variations.) They agreed to invest money they could have spent on bigger houses, vacations, clothes, and cars into the world’s greatest educational system, and into building and operating water systems, roads, parks, and other public facilities, an infrastructure that was the envy of the world. They didn’t get everything right: too much highway and not enough public transportation. But they did a pretty good job.

Young people who enjoyed these ‘loans’ grew up smarter, healthier, and richer than they otherwise would have, and understood that they were supposed to “pay it forward” to future generations, for example by keeping the educational system staffed with lots of dedicated, well-trained teachers, in good buildings and in small classes, with college counselors and up-to-date books. California schools had physical education, art for everyone, music and theater, buildings that looked as though people cared about them, modern languages and ancient languages, advanced science courses with labs where the equipment worked, and more. They were the envy of the world, and they paid off better than Microsoft stock. Same with our parks, coastal zone protection, and social services.

This deal held until about thirty years ago, when for a variety of reasons, California voters realized that while they had done very well from the existing contract, they could do even better by walking away from their obligations and spending what they had inherited on themselves. “My kids are finished with school; why should I pay taxes for someone else’s? Posterity never did anything for me!” An army of fake ‘leaders’ sprang up to pull the moral and fiscal wool over their eyes, and again and again, your parents and their parents lashed out at government (as though there were something else that could replace it) with tax limits, term limits, safe districts, throw-away-the-key imprisonment no matter the cost, smoke-and-mirrors budgeting, and a rule never to use the words taxes and services in the same paragraph.

Now, your infrastructure is falling to pieces under your feet, and as citizens you are responsible for crudities like closing parks, and inhumanities like closing battered women’s shelters. It’s outrageous, inexcusable, that you can’t get into the courses you need, but much worse that Oakland police have stopped taking 911 calls for burglaries and runaway children. If you read what your elected officials say about the state today, you’ll see things like “California can’t afford” this or that basic government function, and that “we need to make hard choices” to shut down one or another public service, or starve it even more (like your university). Can’t afford? The budget deficit that’s paralyzing Sacramento is about $500 per person; add another $500 to get back to a public sector we don’t have to be ashamed of, and our average income is almost forty times that. Of course we can afford a government that actually works: the fact is that your parents have simply chosen not to have it.

I’m writing this to you because you are the victims of this enormous cheat (though your children will be even worse off if you don’t take charge of this ship and steer it). Your education was trashed as California fell to the bottom of US states in school spending, and the art classes, AP courses, physical education, working toilets, and teaching generally went by the board. Every year I come upon more and more of you who have obviously never had the chance to learn to write plain, clear, English. Every year, fewer and fewer of you read newspapers, speak a foreign language, understand the basics of how government and business actually work, or have the energy to push back intellectually against me or against each other. Or know enough about history, literature, and science to do it effectively! You spent your school years with teachers paid less and less, trained worse and worse, loaded up with more and more mindless administrative duties, and given less and less real support from administrators and staff.

Many of your parents took a hike as well, somehow getting the idea that the schools had taken over their duties to keep you learning, or so beat-up working two jobs each and commuting two hours a day to put food on the table that they couldn’t be there for you. A quarter of your classmates didn’t finish high school, discouraged and defeated; but they didn’t leave the planet, even if you don’t run into them in the gated community you will be tempted to hide out in. They have to eat just like you, and they aren’t equipped to do their share of the work, so you will have to support them.

You need to have a very tough talk with your parents, who are still voting; you can’t save your children by yourselves. Equally important, you need to start talking to each other. It’s not fair, and you have every reason (except a good one) to keep what you can for yourselves with another couple of decades of mean-spirited tax-cutting and public sector decline. You’re my heroes just for surviving what we put you through and making it into my classroom, but I’m asking for more: you can be better than my generation. Take back your state for your kids and start the contract again. There are lots of places you can start, for example, building a transportation system that won’t enslave you for two decades as their chauffeur, instead of raising fares and cutting routes in a deadly helix of mediocrity. Lots. Get to work. See you in class!

UPDATE: Like your political science in musical form? Here’s the way people thought about this stuff back in the day, and maybe should again. Bet there’s a good rap along these lines waiting to be born…

Cross-posted from the blog The Reality Based Community.



Litera scripta manet. - Unknown