Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Complementary

It's nice to have someone who complements you. Someone who y ou can take out and not worry about any embarrassment because he/she knows how to act. Someone who you know is beautiful beyond just your eyes. Someone who has not been known as the promiscuous person in your circle of friends (or any circle for that matter, since the world is so small). Someone who challenges your intellect in such a way that, to call her anything but your equal would demean your own intelligence. Someone who knows the proper way to carry his or herself in multiple settings. Someone who shares many of the same values as you and who is willing to adopt some of yours when they make sense. Someone who knows how to work in the kitchen but whose work won't stop there. Someone who understands that you have goals and doesn't try to selfishly hinder them. Someone with aspirations as big as yours with the drive to reach those dreams. Someone who can be trusted with everything from your dry cleaning to your money to your time to, one day, you all's kids. Someone who can understand the dynamics of your family while letting you understand those of hers. Someone who you know that, an argument with him/her would be better than peace with someone else. Someone who understands that, despite your, at times, unsavory past, you have a strong present and a promising future, as well as a greatness that he/she believes in. Most importantly, someone who doesn't watch you in your spiritual walk, but who also walks one of her own and meets with you frequently on the journey to insure that He is the foundation of your relationship.

Having someone who complements you is about more than having a "trophy" to show off (all though she who complements me is a comp

lete #win). It is about having someone who pushes you to do better b

ecause she cares about you and gives of herself so that you can be happy. It is about having support that you didn't know you could find before.

I could go on but I think I've made my point. I pray that everyone finds a partner who is as complementary as mine.

Thanks Kick Push.


Litera scripta manet. - Unknown
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